http://theapronstage.com/2010/01/10/neither-lonely-nor-discontented/#comment-11639
Tokens. We decide what to do with what we are feeling: write Harry Potter, chuck ground turkey. We decide. When we have loved ones and are happy, we speak to them, talk to them, express to them. When we don't, when we are not, we touch our keyboards and write our books which may otherwise seem obsolete. We can choose to be creative to others outside our happiness-making-sphere (usually a spouse or significant other), but we may just use our happiness to chuck turkey. (I love that ground turkey comment by Anna down towards the bottom of the comments on my sister's blog.)
Love you all!